You adjust to whoever is across from you, until your own position blurs.
Why?
Pluto in Libra
Pluto governs what you never do by halves, and what you rebuild differently afterwards. In Libra, it is measured against the other person. You adjust to whoever is across from you, until your own position blurs. Neither domicile, exaltation, detriment nor fall: the planet works without particular support or brake.